Q: Should we love or fear God?
A: Yes.
Q: What do you mean ‘yes’? Should we love or should we fear God?
A: Yes. Those who hate God are in a dreadful fear of His punishment, but those who love Him have a tender fear that their love is not good enough. They are constantly trying to improve themselves and improve their loving. But the good thing is that God is perfect beloved, patient and forgiving, always helpful, showering blessings and healing on those who seek Him.